Stop me if you've heard this one before. A person goes to their GP and says "Doctor, doctor, I think I have Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome!"
In an ideal world, this would start off a chain of referrals to various specialists who would help that person to treat the various aspects of ther condition that are causing them trouble. This is not an ideal world, though, so the punchline will usually be the doctor looking confused and asking you what you're talking about, or denying the existence of the condition and/or your symptoms.
I can't judge GPs too harshly. They're not trained to deal holistically with one condition with a diverse spectrum of symptoms; they're trained to deal with one problem at a time, and by and large they're doing their best with the tools they have. If you're lucky, your GP will have the time and the energy to research EDS and make some informed decisions with you about how best to proceed. More often, however, GPs are stretched for time and will make it Not Their Problem as quickly as they can. This is immensely frustrating to us as patients, especially when our problems are dismissed out of hand.
My diagnosis of EDS arrived with basically no input from GPs at all. The first I knew about it - despite presenting with symptoms at various points in my childhood and teenage years - was in the winter of 2010, when the mother of my then boyfriend observed that my middle fingers are crooked. They’re the kind of shape you’d normally associate with arthritis caused by a repetitive movement like knitting, but here they were on someone young and arthritis free.
A physiotherapist, she proceeded to ask me a number of questions about my history, and finally she challenged me to touch my thumb to my forearm, as in figure 2 below:
On doing this, she told me I might be hypermobile. I had no idea what that meant, so I thought nothing much of it until some months later. I was at a party in a field, celebrating the birthdays of two friends. A shout went up for help dismantling the tents, and the person next to me mentioned that they had hypermobility and couldn’t join in. “Oh, hey,” I said, “I have that too!”
|Taken from www.physio-pedia.com. And yes, I can do all that other stuff as well, in case you were wondering.|
My new acquaintance, it turns out, participated in some clinical trials relating to the condition. As a result, they know basically everything there is to know about it. They told me to talk to my GP and ask for a referral to the hypermobility clinic at UCLH, which is a centre of excellence in research and houses most of the few specialists active in the UK.
Despite being fortunate enough to live in London (making it more likely that I'd be referred to the right place), it took me a year to summon up the courage to ask for a referral. My GP at the time wasn’t terribly sympathetic, but grudgingly agreed to “exaggerate my symptoms” and send the referral in. A few months later, I was seen and given a formal diagnosis of Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome.
Three years later, this person and I are firm friends, and they still have a wealth of advice to give me about how to manage my condition. When my dizziness and blackouts returned after a three-year absence, they told me what they were and how to take care of myself. When I reported gut symptoms, they gave me advice on tracking my diet. Since I’ve known them, they’ve given me tips on everything from exercise to how to talk to doctors. We’ve shared joy at each other’s good days and frustrations at our setbacks, and I couldn’t put a value on their friendship.
Community has been key in my EDS experience so far. I’ve passed on the advice my friend has given me, and a little group of supportive friends has formed around me. Symptoms like fatigue, brain fog, chronic pain, anxiety and depression can be incredibly isolating, and so the Internet has also been vital, connecting me to people - often total strangers - who understand what I’m going through and can throw me a lifeline when I’m struggling. Community is often there when doctors dismiss us or won’t see the complete picture of our symptoms. It’s there when oppression comes at us from all sides of the political sphere. We have each other, and we’re holding tight.
To all my friends, on and offline, this one’s for you. You all rock.